
Want to turn your girl on and arouse her like never before?
Understand what women want in bed with these tips and you’ll be able to
do that and more!
Sex is all in the mind, for men and for women.
It may be an activity where all the action is felt down below.
But unless your mind doesn’t enjoy it, you’ll end up bored.
So when it comes to arousing a woman and making her love the things
you do in bed, you need to make her feel good about the things you do to
her in her head.
What women want in bed
When you’re in a new relationship, getting naked in front of each
other is all it takes to get the bodies warm and ready for action.
But if you want to have wild, passionate sex with a girl and make her
love the things you do to her in bed, you need to do more than just
drop your shorts.
You need to keep her needs in mind.
And you need to give equal importance to all aspects of lovemaking.
10 things you can do to make her love it
If you’re wondering what women want in bed, don’t think further. Just
keep these 10 things you should do in mind, and you’ll definitely make
the special lady feel more loved and sexy, and ensure that she has a
great time too.
#1 Take your time. This is something most men don’t
give a thought about. More foreplay. Guys know the rules, but they just
can’t help it. All you want to do is stick the shaft and drive. But
think about it, by delaying the penetration and enjoying the foreplay,
she’d feel more wet and will enjoy sex a lot more. Isn’t that worth the
effort?
And here’s another thing to remember. By extending foreplay, you’re
giving your mind and your little guy more time to prepare for sex. And
by spending more time on foreplay, you’ll reduce your chances of losing
an erection midway.
#2 Emotional connection. To enjoy sex better, girls
need to feel connected to the guy emotionally. Well, this doesn’t make
one night stands less sexy. But in a relationship where you’ve had sex a
few times, you always need to focus on making her feel loved and
emotionally connected to you. It’ll make her enjoy the night a lot more.
Speak to her lovingly, kiss her all over her face and ears, and
whisper sweet nothings into her ear as you prepare to make love. Get
this right, and she’ll definitely feel more connected to you and even
fall more in love with you.
#3 Physical connection. When you have sex, the two
bodies unite and become one. When you’re on top of the girl, make sure
both of you are positioned well and feel comfortable. Neither of you can
enjoy sex if your bodies don’t feel comfortable against each other.
Breathe together and take in your breath just as she takes in hers.
When your bodies unite and synchronize with each other perfectly,
breathing and all, she’ll feel more connected to you and may even think
she’s found the perfect match for her body.
#4 Variety and games. Lovemaking is passionate. But
too much of a good thing can bore anyone. So try to mix in the
passionate sex with games and fun. Girls love having a nice time in bed,
and it doesn’t always have to be about sex. Cuddle her, tease her, play
with her clothes and just have fun with each other for a while before
deciding to jump each other’s bones.
#5 Set the mood right. If you want to have awesome sex,
you need to set the mood right. You can use perfumed body oils and give
her a massage for half an hour while focusing on her love spots, so you
can make her feel horny and relaxed, and extend foreplay at the same
time.
You can even use porn if you’re not in the mood for something
elaborate. Or both of you can go clubbing on a Saturday night and grind
against each other in the club until you make her wet and want to take
you right there.
While you can’t create perfect sexual moods all the time, put in an
effort to build the sexual tension up, and she’ll definitely orgasm a
lot better.
#6 Self esteem. For a woman, self esteem is one of
the most important things to feel sexy about herself when she’s in bed
with a man. When you’re making love with your girl, make her feel loved
and comfortable, and compliment her body or any other specific regions
that you find sexy.
Women love a man who boosts their ego in bed. Overlook her awkward
spots and don’t stop complimenting her body. And she’ll bring out the
sexy minx inside of her who’ll feel confident and give you a better time
in bed.
#7 Make her mind go wild. Girls have an active
imagination too. And if you can stimulate her mind into thinking dirty
and naughty, she’ll definitely get wilder in bed. Recreate fantasies
that she’ll enjoy, talk to her about the first time both of you saw each
other naked, or remind her about the time both of you did something
wild outside the house. And when you learn which fantasies turn her on
more than the others, use those fantasies while having sex with her.
#8 Give all of her your attention. For guys, there
are just two parts of a girl’s body that occupies their attention in
bed. But if you really want your woman to have a wild time in bed, don’t
isolate yourself to just a place or two on her body.
Focus on all of her, kiss her hands, lick her navel, kiss her toes,
the back of her neck and everywhere else. If she moans or gasps, you
know you’re doing the right thing.
#9 Satisfy her. Can you really enjoy sex if you
don’t finish yourself off? Of course, you can’t. And for girls, it works
the same way too. Don’t get carried away while having sex and focus
only on your own needs. Take it slow and warm her up, and don’t
ejaculate until your woman has orgasmed first. Or if you’d like, try to
orgasm together. But don’t end it before she’s had an orgasm.
Even as you have sex, focus on her pleasure and work your way to make
her orgasm. By doing that, you’ll feel more proud of accomplishing a
good finish and keeping her satisfied.
#10 Sex has to end with love. Just like foreplay,
afterplay too is rather important for a girl. For a guy, sex is just
sex. But for a girl, sex includes foreplay and afterplay to have a
better impact. Cuddle up after sex and talk to each other for a few
minutes. Add in a few kisses and compliments and she’ll love you for the
great guy you are.
Just don’t finish up, turn away and fall asleep. Pillow talk after sex
can bring both of you closer and make her feel appreciated and loved.
And now that you know what women want in bed, try to make sure your
girl has a great time when she’s in bed with you. Remember to focus more
on her pleasure, and you’ll end up feeling on top of the world too!